Be My Valentine JMC At Your Service - February 2010

Jack. You were very popular amongst women, when you were young ?
I do not know. It is possible, that I raised interest amongst some women, but not all.

How did you pick your women  ?
Silly talks, love confessions and presents, mostly.

You didn't use anonymous e-mails ?
No I didn't.

What was favorite opening phrase ?

Very simple question, "I this seat free ?", "May I sit and take my drink here."

And women either said "Okay", or "The seat is reserved"

Yes, that's how it usually went. And if I was permitted to sit down, I started to talk with the woman.

Suppose you were young, shy and lonely. What should you do after you send an anonymous mail to woman you adore ?
I would send her flowers, and after the delivery I'd take contact to her. With my own name. Besides flowers, a fine chocolate box is another very traditional gift to a beloved woman. 

Ye-es, Jack. But what would you say to her ?
Nothing special. Asked if she had the mail and flowers. Then I would ask, if we could go out together some day.

What is the most difficult part in approaching a woman ?
I think it is the fear of rejection. 

Some women are quite ruthless, when they do that. When this happens, you should never get disheartened by it. According my experience most of the women takes the suitors quite positively.

If you don't have a particular woman in your mind, you should look for some other women, and do the same maneuvers again.

If you have your eyes set on a certain woman, and she is single, my advice is, that keep on trying. 

Some times women reject man, because they want to be sure, that the guy is really interested in me. These women wait for a another attempt, and are very disappointed, if you leave the game to the first attempt.

If this is not the reason for the rejection, every attempt you make, flatters the woman, and improves your possibilities to get her. When you do more than one attempt, you make it quite clear, that you really like and want the woman. Almost every woman gets flattered by the idea of being wanted and loved by some man.

What should you talk with the woman ?
Well, you should be attractive and interested in the woman. Long talks about your old girl friends and your car are the worst things you can do in your first dates. Women are not usually very interested about these issues. Instead of these, you could make flattering notes about her looks, hair and clothes.

I could add to this, that if you are not the Casanova-Class women hunter, try to keep your booze drinking in control. On and before the date. Most of the women prefer sober, quiet and boring men, from clown-like fully-loaded guys.

Women take you much more seriously, when you are sober. And not under influence.

Yes, and according to the psychic studies the first thing an average young woman thinks, when she sees and meets a man, is not his looks or his wealth.

She thinks, what kind of a father he is to my children.

The most important thing about gifts is the joy of getting and giving gifts. 
To someone you like and love. The price of the gift should never be essential.

- - Beauty - -

What makes woman beautiful ?

When you see a total stranger on the street, the beauty comes from the looks. Resemblances to someone you like and love are important. In my eyes women, who looks like you are the prettiest and most beautiful woman.

Jack darling. What makes me so beautiful ?

Half of the looks come from the love and attraction. Not very important how you look. Your love, closeness and character are the things, which makes you so beautiful and special in my eyes.

The way people see their friends and companions are usually heavily colored by the companionship and other things, which come from the inside. Looks is not very important thing with friends.

- - Perfumes - -

Jack tell me about Rendez Vouz ?
It was the name of the night club, where I spent my weekends. The word is French. It means a secret meeting between lowers. The meeting is usually held in a romantic place, lightened by the moonlight.

Jack. Do you know, what is Ice-Breaker ?
Yes. I know. It is a name of a drink. I used to break the ice with Blue Angels. Sometimes I bought White Ladies to my women.

Does perfumes effect on men ?
Yes they do. When you are close to a lady, and the odor of the perfume reaches your senses, you'll get yourself a very pleasant moment.

If you go to a night club, and you want get attention from the men, you must have a good perfume. Women in the night clubs are so beautiful and well dressed, that every weapon is needed.

Do you miss those times in Rendez Vous ?
No. I don't. I miss you.